Friday, October 19, 2007

In Loving Memory

I just learned today that a dear lady, my friend and ex coworker, Brenda died of leukemia in August of this year. This lady was such a role model for me and a very dear friend of mine. Although she still lived in Vegas and I in Arizona, we would talk every couple months and catch up on life. She was a single mom, raising two teenage boys by herself. She worked a full time job and always had this beautiful smile on her face. When I learned the news today, I was actually calling to talk with her about my 401K that I still have sitting in Vegas. When I couldn't find her in the directory, I figured she had moved on from this job (as we all have) and found something more suited for her. I kept thinking, "Oh great....now I have to hunt her down." The deposit services rep, who I briefly knew before quiting, had to tell me the horrible news and poor thing, had to relive the whole story again. She was upset that I did not know and this was because no one had my contact information (bull, but okay). Brenda had battled breast cancer on and off for years but was in remission. She had found out in July of 07 that she had an aggressive form of leukemia and within a month, it had taken her life. I'm truly blessed to have known Brenda, but am feeling a little selfish right now and am very upset over her passing. God really needed this angel and I'm so thankful that she didn't have to suffer but a month. Please keep her family, her two sons and parents, in your thoughts and prayers. Keep me in those prayers too - I'm pretty devastated by this and this one will take a long time to cope with.

Lastly, tell everyone you love them cause my God, life is fragile and we all have no idea when it will be our turn. Never let a day go by without telling those if your life how much you do love them.

5 comments:

Mac said...

I am so sorry about your friend.
Cancer sucks!
The good news here is you have great memories of your friendship with her. And that is huge.
I pray that you have peace about this soon.
Take care.

Nicole said...

Thanks Uncle Jim....it was definitely a rough night and my eyes are quite puffy but I will get through this. I'm so lucky to have known her. :) Love ya!

Sarah said...

I'm so sorry Nikki. I love you!

Emily said...

I love you Nikki. I am so sorry for your loss. As my dad stated... Cancer sucks.... I am here if you ever need anything. I will pray for you and all of her family - no one should have to go through this - but sadly most of us do....

Nicole said...

Thanks Sarah and Em! I'm doing much better today. This experience has made me realize a lot of things about life and me. It was a rough week but I'm good now! I love you both very much!